I stumbled upon this post via pinterest and has some AMAZING points on helping parents through some difficult days after miscarriage. It's a very quick read and will truly help you understand the pain parents go through.
I can tell you that points 1, 2 and 3 were especially hard for me the beginning of this year. Almost unbearable even though I was expecting again. Number 5 was so true. Todd even said he felt I wasn't excited about my pregnancy at all. I was numb and I was trying to protect myself emotionally. Number 6 is more true than I'd like it to be, but I rejoice in their blessings.
This is not something I'd ever wish upon anyone. EVER. I really do hope there will be more understanding in the future.